When you become a new creature in Christ, your right to remain offended dissipates!
"A true sign of forgiveness is even when you remember their faults and offences, you say in your heart and to your mind, ‘God’s grace is bigger than what you did to me and how you made me feel."~Psychology of Forgiveness
This also applies to forgiving ourselves, which is so much harder than forgiving others! We tend to walk around carrying unforgiveness of self like a bag lady, and when the bag is full we go get a cart to help us drag it around! But God continually shows us how to forgive by leading by example.
Forgiveness of self and others is equally important. You can't possibly move forward in life to the things God has for you when your weighed down with unforgiveness and offences!
There's a line in the song "bag lady" by Erykah Badu that says; One day all them bags gon' get in your way, so pack light,
Love will make it better so let it go, let it go, let it go!
Who is a God like You, Pardoning iniquity And passing over the transgression of the remnant of His heritage? He does not retain His anger forever, Because He delights in mercy.
Micah 7:18 NKJV
And forgive us our debts, As we forgive our debtors.
Matthew 6:12 NKJV
I love y'all for real!